TRUE GOSPEL: Why some marriages are a thorn in the flesh?



WHAT Jehovah God has joined, please, I beg in the name of Jesus Christ, let no man separate.

I’m preaching this gospel because the time has come for the Devil, Lucifer or Satan and all his demons to be exposed, judged or punished by the Creator of heaven and earth, for deceiving His children into rebellion.

The rebellion I’m referring to is sin.

According to the New International Version of 1 John 3:4, “Everyone who sins breaks the law; in fact, sin is lawlessness.”

The same verse in the New Living Translation version reads: “Everyone who sins is breaking God’s law, for all sin is contrary to the law of God.”

The English Standard Version reads, “Everyone who makes a practice of sinning also practices lawlessness; sin is lawlessness.”

What I’m preaching here is supported in other biblical scriptures of the gospel in Deuteronomy 9:7; Joshua 1:18, among others.

This is why we often see many church founders, pastors, so-called prophets and ‘entrepreneurial’ evangelists today end up taking wives of their fellow church members without shame, because the spirit of rebellion against Jesus Christ is always in them.

Remember when this world was created, it was Jehovah God’s intention to make both man and woman, rather husband and wife, including their off-springs live in harmony in a paradise before Lucifer deceived the first people.

I refer to Adam and his wife Eve, who eventually disobeyed Jehovah God through the snake.

I don’t wish to verbally attack the snake or woman because they were deceived by Lucifer, I would rather focus on what we should avoid or do in order to help Jesus Christ in his restoration process of this paradise.

In other words, the envisioned paradise that Jehovah God hoped for us today, especially husband and wife was a place where we would live forever in joy, peace, love and being productive.

It was Jehovah God’s plan to ensure peace, love and harmony prevailed in the world. A world with no suffering, no death, no sickness, non-existence of old age neither war.

The peace, stability, love, harmony and security were freely given, but this annoyed the wicked Devil until he entered paradise where Satan unleashed a snake to deceive a woman, hence rebellion against Jehovah God.

Paradise was a place of blessing where the righteous would live.

The good news is that Jehovah God will restore that same paradise within a foreseeable period.

Now, after noticing man and woman living in happier times, peaceful environment, where love was abundant, the devil deceived the first couple to rebel or sin against God.

Today, we witness newlyweds enter journeys of expensive white marriages, but hardly a period of time, they split as a result of deceit.

We have often witnessed happy marriages ending in pain due to cheating. But when we trace the cause of this, we might discover that the devil is behind.

We have often seen beautiful women married by rich men end up being single mothers due to allowing the devil to deceive them by sleeping with men who are not their husbands, worse still, people of low moral value.

Similarly, we often witness men of integrity losing their wives due to endless cheating.

Some men, married to obedient women mess their marriages by cheating with prostitutes, housemaids and so-forth. But why is it so?

The problem so many marriages are breaking up is because husband and wife no longer think as a team.

According to Matthew 19:5, or the book of Ephesians 5:31, “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”

The same verse reads: “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one” while the English Standard Version states: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

So, my question is, what is it that cause this unity to break up, or man and woman refuse to be permanently joined yet it is Jehovah God’s plan?

Well, I’m not going to dwell much on problems but would rather find solutions in order to shame the devil out there! I know the devil is a liar, and very soon Jehovah God shall release the Prince of Peace, Jesus Christ to destroy Lucifer in quest for the lost paradise.

But before the second coming of Jesus Christ, for both husband and wife to enjoy paradise on earth right now, please, always think as a team.

Always learn to be united in your thoughts and feelings even when something outside marriage looks glittering. Always remember, all that glitters is not gold. It is not everything that looks precious or true turns out to be so.

In the name of the Almighty Jehovah God, there is nothing exciting out there except lies, cheating and permanent lies.

Always consult one another as husband and wife if you are to enjoy paradise on earth while waiting the second coming of Jesus Christ.

According to Philippians 2:2, “……then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind”.

This is further confirmed in the same verse, “Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose” while the English Standard Version reads: “complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.”

Well, by consultation, your plans as husband and wife will always succeed. Stop consulting female or male work mates about your marriages, but consult the author and finisher of your life, who is Jehovah God.

My bible in the book of Hebrews 12:2 reads, “Looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Only through Jesus Christ we always find peace, love and joy. How do we find this Jesus Christ? This is done through prayer, supplication and meditation.

The book of Galatians 5:22 of the New International Version says: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness.”

Marriage break ups, quarrels, fighting, cheating, deceit, unfaithfulness, lies and unreliability in marriages will all disappear.

To bring the devil to shame even before Jesus comes for the second time, learn not to cut lines of communication with your partner always.

When Adam stopped to communicate with his wife Eve, the serpent called devil filled in the gap thereby deceiving the woman to eat the forbidden fruit. If Adam had not left Eve alone while loitering in garden of Eden, the snake might not have got the opportunity to speak to Eve.

Communication is by far the single biggest aspect that holds lovers together or tears them apart.

People change with time, and you may assume you know everything about your lover, but chances are, they have changed and they are not the same person you once met several years ago.

When you start to take communication for granted in a relationship, it’s only a matter of time before the inevitable drift takes control of the relationship.

Secondly, make sure to make your marriage successful, the two of you must take an active interest in pleasing each other and making the other person happy.

Failure to take such initiative in love end up in both parties taking each other for granted, and the relationship would start to stagnate.

Thirdly, sexual intimacy is always very important part of romance and love that should be initiated by both partners. Starving one another of sex leads into contention and disgruntlement, so, make each other happy in sex always.

Avoid confrontation. Create time for your partner even tired.

Lack of time for each other makes one partner to replace you with either a male or female companion, resulting in love disintegration.

Always have emotional intimacy. Always share good news with your partner before doing so with your relatives, friends or parents. Make sure every day you feel happy to talk to your lover or partner about your day.

Lastly, choose not to expect perfection of your husband or wife, but rather choose to focus on your mate’s good qualities.

If you believe in this gospel, I say to you, Amen and amen!

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